Let Me Tell You Something

Let Me Tell You Something
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The path of life is both beautiful and challenging, full of ups and downs, detours and turns, and an infinite variety of experiences and feelings. Each person is expected to create their special path in life lest you find yourself trying to fit into someone else’s, this is where the problem starts. Diverse and different as we are, it is imperative to live as though the world revolves around you, that is why some rules feel wrong to other people. This is because those rules were made by someone who felt he could adjust to them while disregarding the feelings and thoughts of other people.

Philosophers, theologians, and thinkers have pondered the meaning and purpose of life throughout history. Some people think that life is just a sequence of unpredictable, random occurrences that finally result in our death. Others think that we are in this world for a reason and that there is a larger scheme or purpose for it. Whichever theory resonates with your definition of life will be your driving force for the way you live.

Relationships And Life

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Relationships with other people are one of life's most crucial features. These relationships, which range from the tie between a parent and child to the affection between romantic partners to the friendships we form throughout our lives, are crucial in determining who we are and how we view the world. They are a major source of happiness and fulfillment because they give us love, support, comfort, and a sense of belonging.

However, we currently live in a society where everyone aspires to follow global trends and wants to demonstrate that they are also enjoying their lives to the fullest. It is fair to want to enjoy and live your best life, but once it begins to feel like you are doing it for other people instead of yourself, you start to put burden yourself. In this instance, you cannot blame society for this pressure; it is all your own.

Living within your means, resources, and ideas will provide you with more fulfillment. Yes! While it's true that some people will try to convince you that your way of life is uninteresting or demeaning, hey, if you are pleased with the way you are spending your life, it is always best to just be you. Do not allow anyone to persuade you to adopt a lifestyle that is inconsistent with your personality because people differ in everything, from their food preferences to their preferences in partners.

PS: The dark sides of people are hardly displayed for exhibition.

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Your Sense Of Purpose In Life

Until recently, I never clearly knew what I wanted in life, I didn’t know what I was good at when it came to my hobbies and passion. Joining Lead For Ghana opened me up to a lot of tools and paths that helped me in knowing what I somehow wanted in life. Words have always been something that made me simmer down when I am feeling pensive even though growing up, talking, or being chatty was never my thing, I know I always wanted to do philanthropic work at least one time in my life if I have the means. This was just one way of giving, me that sense of purpose in life, to help people, and to also write. What am I running towards with this life-unwrapping recount?

What I am saying in other words is that Pursuing our passions, whether through employment, hobbies, or other endeavors, helps us discover meaning and purpose, and gives us a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment.

There are obstacles and hurdles in life. At some point in our life, we will all experience adversity, sorrow, and tragedy, and these trials can put our fortitude, tenacity, and determination to the test. However, it is during these times that we have the chance to advance personally, to learn more about the world and ourselves, and to grow more appreciative of the chances and benefits in our life.

It is up to each of us to make the most of the time we have and to enjoy the journey with all of its ups and downs, twists and turns, and an unlimited array of experiences and emotions, no matter how life is presented to us.

Dorcas Kongwie

Dorcas Kongwie

Communication||Advocacy|| Short Story Writer||
Ghana